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Mabel
Posted on: 2010/4/23 1:52
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Re: Al Fatihah dan Takziah buat keluarga Bro Mabel
Salam and Hello Benzers

Thanks for all your DOA and well-wishes. I pray to God that you will not have to face the same situation to any of your parents.

Saturday. 17th April 2010. Time 7.30pm

My father, mum and sister just reached home after attending a tahlil session at our relative’s house. My father was leading the Majlis Tahlil.

It was Maghreb, so together with my mother and sister; they performed the Maghreb prayers berjamaah. After performing the prayer, he asked whether my mother and sister want to join him to go to Masjid as there was a ceramah being conducted by a respected Ustaz coming to town.

Usually, they all would go together to the mosque for the night prayers. However this very night, my mother was tired and asked my sister and father if they can perform the Isya prayers at home instead of the Masjid.

My father declined and still want to proceed to the masjid. Apparently, he has promised his contractors and his staffs that he will treat them for a nice dinner after the ceramah in appreciation for the job well done for the extensive renovation done at his house.

It was about 7.55 pm. Since he’s going alone, he took one of his motor bikes and makes his way to the main road. Little did he realized that there were two incoming motor bikes pillared by two underage boys (13 years and 14 years) racing with each others toward him with no lights on.

According to my sister, there was a loud bang just outside our house and within minutes there were many people in front of our house, mainly due to motorists using the main road heading towards Meranti or going back to Pasir Mas.

Upon seeing many people outside our house, my sister took a peep through the window to see what happened. My mother at that time was still performing wirid at her prayer mat. Being curious with the crowd, still with her talikong sembahyang, she decided to go down to the road at see what happened.

She was shocked to see my father at the edge of the road and ran back to the house to call my mother. They both ran down the edge of the road where my father was sitting. He was sitting ” berlunjur’. From my mother’s description, my father was trying to recite “La illa Haillallah.” My mother than hold him closely to her while the crowds protect both of them, from the passing vehicles. She was whispering at his ear… “La illa Haillallah”

I received that tragic phone call from my sister at about 8.00 pm. That time, I have just arrived home from KLIA airport after a week business trip in Vietnam. I asked her if my father is conscious. My sister was not sure. I also asked her, has anyone else knows about this. She said no. I told her to focus on the ambulance while I will take care of the rest.

About 10 minutes later she called me again that the ambulance is going to be late. I told my sister if it is possible; take one of the cars at the house and bring him to the hospital as this can be crucial for our father’s survival.

Eventually, my father was awarded to the hospital at about 8.30 pm. Half hour later at 9.00 pm, I received the hardest news in my life when my sister broke the news that my father was pronounced death by the hospital doctor. I find it hard to believe. I call my mother to seek confirmation.

Without delay, I told my wife and children to start packing while I start making more phone calls including calling Sham to seek his help to inform our community.

We started heading towards Kota Bharu in convoy at about midnight after gathering the interested parties.

It was raining all night and we decided to use the KL- Gua Musang –Kota Bharu route since it was the shortest route to reach our destination. In my life I have traveled to a number of remote places on earth including crossing those difficult Artic Circle. Believe me, this must be the longest and the hardest journey I have to ever endure.

Sunday, 18th April 2010.

We reached Pasir Mas at 09.00 am, a starting working day in Kelantan. From the distance, I saw lots of car at our house. There were hundreds of people outside our house and as I entered the house, my heart feel sad when I saw my father’s body lying in the middle of our living room with many people surrounding him, all reciting Surah Yaasin and other Quranic versus. I tried to stay composed as all eyes were looking at us as we entered the living room. I sat beside him; open the cloth that closed his face and kiss him followed by my wife, brothers and others who were traveling with us.

At 10.00 am, guided by my cousin who is an Imam at our local mosque, myself and two of my other brothers starts “memandikan mayat arwah”. I feel very sad that I have to use scissors to open up his jubah as we have to mandikan nya. There were few blood stains on the jubbah as the result of this accident. Accept for some few bruises, I feel relieved that his body remains intact. That Mat Rempits bikes did not hit him. It hit his bike. Due to this high speed impact, he was thrown off and landed on his head. His cause of death is Cervical Fracture according to the Medical Report. He was wearing his usual serban as he was on his way to the mosque which was about 100 meter away from our house.

10.45 am - we started kapan kan arwah.

11.10 am - before the closing his face, I called upon my grandmother to ask for her blessing. I asked her to redha to my father and ampunkan segala dosa nya sekira ada. My Granny said “Anak ku adalah anak yang solih, sesungguh nya aku redha pada dia dan aku ampun kan segala dosa nya kepada ku”. As you have been informed, Me and my two younger brothers were the ones who were “memandikan nya.” All this while semasa memandikan dan menkafan kan arwah, he’s face expression was calm as if he was in a deep sleep. A miracle happened here; after my Granny recited those verses, since I was sitting closest to him, I can see clearly that his face changed from deep sleep to smiling expression. This is also been confirmed by my two other younger brothers.

1130 am- After I wakilkan Solat Jenazah to my brother in law (who is also an Ustaz)to lead the prayer, we started performing Solat Jenazah. There were easily more than 300 hundreds people performing this solat at our house including the ADUN and Speaker Dewan Rakyat,a feat that I think is difficult especially during a starting working days. I asked my mother later, she told me that my father’s death has been announced at three different Masjid where he often mengimankan solat di sana.

After the solat, we carried his jenazah to the waiting van. There were lots of peoples wanting to carry his body to the Van Jenazah.

11.45 am- We arrived at the Tanah Perkuburan. Before we buried him, there was another Solat Jenazah being performed at the Kubur for those who cannot make it to our house on time for the Solat Jenazah.

11.50 am- Together with my two other brother and my Imam Cousin, the 4 of us enter the liang lahat untuk menyambut jenazah ayah saya. He fit in perfectly in the Liang lahat mengiring ke kanan mengadap kiblat, thanks to the Grave digger who calved this to perfection.

12.00 noon- Complete our Burial and start the Tahlil and Talkin headed by my Brother in law.

Thanks to Allah and your doa, our 1st mission has been accomplished to have a speedy burial by 12.00 noon on Sunday.

Our 2nd Mission is to organize a 7 days Majlis Tahlil and Majlis Katam Quran buat Arwah. My remaining days in Pasir Mas has been busy helping my mother with all the paper works, such as Polis reports, dealing with JPN, Pejabat Pencen, Banks, Tabung Haji and Perjabat Tanah. To simplify matter we all decided to transfer all my father assets to our mother.

My 1st brother continues to visit the graves, while my 2nd brother help me out with all the catering arrangements for both majlis.

My sister and mothers, continue to receive visitors coming to our house which is non stop to these days..

Tonight is the 5th nights, and each night there were easily between 80- 100 peoples attending his tahlil session. As tonight is a Friday night, we have about 150 peoples for the Tahlil. This will continue until Saturday. The 1st 3 night was fill with Quran recitation after the Tahlil, compliment from my father’s friend (Sahabat2 Tadarus arwah semasa dia hidup). Each nights they Katam 30 Juzuks. Hence, in total they completed 3 Qatams.

I believe, what we in the family are experiencing is made possible dengan bantuan Allah. My father has done a lot of good things in his life to deserve this. In addition, berkat doa kawan2 semua berjalan dengan mudah. Bantuan sentiasa datang. Sebagai contoh nya, saya yang berada di luar negara masih sempat kembali on time to sent my father away. Alhamdullilah dan Jazakaallah

Suming up:

Cause of my father’s death

Cervical Fracture cause by being throne up from his bike after that high speed impact by Mat Rempit. One Mat Rempit left the scene. The other, the 13 year old that hit my father’s bike was admitted for one day at hospital. He’s OK. Both of them has no licenses and were speeding and racing each others with no lights on at 8.00 pm. It’s a police case now.

What I think about this whole things.

My father has done a lot of good things in his life. There is a number of good sign which makes me feel blessed of his sudden departure:

1. He close his day by leading a Tahlil at our relative’s house.
2. He performed Solat berjamaah with my mother and sister.
3. He passed away dalam air sembahyang
4. Dalam perjalanan untuk bersembahyang isyak berjamaah
5. Dia dalam perjalanan untuk menuntut ilmu di masjid
6. Dalam perjalanan untuk memberi makan. His contractor and staffs was waiting for him after the ceramah masjid. They did not understand why he did not turn up. Call his cellphone..but no reply. They only knew the reason why he did not turn up when they turn up at our house the next day…
7. Sempat melafaz “Lailla Haillallah “ dan dalam pangkuan isteri tercinta.
8. Mati dalam kemalangan will mean mati Syahid akhirat. Setengah pendapat mengatakan dia akan lepas seksa kubur…AMIN.
9. Dia telah di redhai oleh ibu nya dan di ampunkan oleh ibu nya.
10. Beside Solat Jenazah di Makkah dan Madinah, this is the next best thing I have seen.
11. Tahlil nya sentiasa di penuhi oleh rakan2 dan saudara mara. Majority of them say, he is a good man…

…and many more…

About my father

He’s an ex Air Force officer. Even though he is 70, he is much fitter than me. He is healthy and has no specific illness. He retired at 45 years from the Air Force. Spend a lot of his time with Masjid, he was chosen as a part time Imam in three different Masjid in Pasir Mas due to his ability to recite the Al Quran. He also spends time as a Treasurer at Persatuan Perajurit and does other Voluntary services in the community. He travel few times to the holy cities of Makkah and Madinah during his life to perform Umrah and Hajj

My memories of him

Once when I was a child, he took me and my younger brother for a spin on Cessana aircraft circulating Klang Valley ..that was during the 60’s . We really had a fun day..

Another beautiful cherish moments was when we spent our last 15 days of Ramadhan in Makkah. He, my mother and younger brother was there for one month. Due to work, I and my wife can only manage to join them on the last 15 days of Ramadhan. That moments was really priceless.

I love my father very much and as a son, I have tried to fulfill each and every wish he asked me. I called him before leaving Vietnam. He asked me to come home to see his renovation works. I promised him that I will visit him end of this month…

I learnt many things about life through him. One of his advices; which I would like to share with all of you. “What ever you do in life, do it kerana Allah, you will get the return from Allah from all direction”

Lesson Learn

1. Try to prevent your parent from using motor bikes. Even though my father has three cars, he still prefers using motor bikes. In fact he has three bikes including one big cc motor bikes. The whole family has advised him against this. I suppose he chooses bike out of convenience.
2. Never under estimate your mother’s blessing. Her blessing is keyed to what ever you do in your life…this life and next life.
3. Be wary about Mat Rempit. These two clowns have been racing with each other over the last one month according to some kampong people I spoke to. This could have been prevented.
4. Never under estimate the power of doa. Doa dua sahabats yang berjauhan di makbulkan Allah. This is stated in the hadith.

Thanks for all your doa and well-wishes. God Bless you all….AMIN..


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Cheers/Mabel

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buckrey
Posted on: 2010/4/23 6:45
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Re: Al Fatihah dan Takziah buat keluarga Bro Mabel
Al Takziah untuk Bro Mabel and Family. AlFatihah untuk Ayahanda Bro yang tercinta. Banyak tauladan yang dapat di ambil daripada kisah ini, pegangan yang mulia, "berbuat sesuatu kerana Allah SWT". Terimakasih Bro Mabel kerana sudi berkongsi dengan kami semua di sini. Sekali lagi AlFatihah, semoga rohnya ditempatkan dikalangan orang-orang yang beriman. Amin.
jeob
Posted on: 2010/4/23 8:10
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Re: Al Fatihah dan Takziah buat keluarga Bro Mabel
dear mabel...

my sincerest condolences to you & family

Amir1915
Posted on: 2010/4/23 20:10
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Re: Al Fatihah dan Takziah buat keluarga Bro Mabel
Bro Mabel,
Salam takziah, moga rohnya dirahmati Allah SWT.... amin


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Mabel
Posted on: 2010/4/24 0:28
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Re: Al Fatihah dan Takziah buat keluarga Bro Mabel
Quote:

buckrey wrote:
Al Takziah untuk Bro Mabel and Family. AlFatihah untuk Ayahanda Bro yang tercinta. Banyak tauladan yang dapat di ambil daripada kisah ini, pegangan yang mulia, "berbuat sesuatu kerana Allah SWT". Terimakasih Bro Mabel kerana sudi berkongsi dengan kami semua di sini. Sekali lagi AlFatihah, semoga rohnya ditempatkan dikalangan orang-orang yang beriman. Amin.


Amin..

Terima kasih Bro Buck ke atas segala doa yang di sampaikan buat arwah.

Semoga Allah membalas jasa Bro Buck sekeluarga..


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Cheers/Mabel

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Mabel
Posted on: 2010/4/24 0:30
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jeob wrote:
dear mabel...

my sincerest condolences to you & family



Thank you jeob for your well-wishes..

God bless you and family..


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Mabel
Posted on: 2010/4/24 0:32
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Amir1915 wrote:
Bro Mabel,
Salam takziah, moga rohnya dirahmati Allah SWT.... amin


Amin..

Thank you Amir keatas doa yang di sampaikan buat arwah.

Semoga Allah membalas jasa Amir sekeluarga..


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Cheers/Mabel

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speedevil
Posted on: 2010/4/24 14:22
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Re: Al Fatihah dan Takziah buat keluarga Bro Mabel
My sincere condolences to u & ur family...


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Mabel
Posted on: 2010/4/25 2:07
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speedevil wrote:
My sincere condolences to u & ur family...


Thank you Bro speed !

Appreciate your well wishes..

God Bless you and family..


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Shafri124
Posted on: 2010/4/25 9:10
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Re: Al Fatihah dan Takziah buat keluarga Bro Mabel
maaf kerana telah lama tidak memasuki forum ini..kerana saya ada projek di kawasan pedalaman..Sekali lagi saya ingin mengucapkan takziah kepada Bro Mabel diatas kepulangan ayahanda tercinta ke rahmattullah semoga rohnya dicucuri oleh rahmat dan ditempatkan di kalangan orang2 yang solleh...amin..bersama-sama dengan ini sama2lah kita semua mensedekahkan bacaan Al-Fatihah ke atas roh Allahyarham..buat Bro Mabel saya minta banyak2 bersabar dan redha diatas ketentuan Illahi..kerana saya juga sudah ketiadaan bapa yang tersayang..akhir kata always remember ur greatest memories 4ever with ur great2 late father..


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